Ralphie May…Episode 1, Season III
What was that? Or, as the kids say, (or, as Ralphie May might say) What’s up wid dat?! We’re referring to the announcement that May made shortly before he launched into his set on the first episode of Season III. Something about his father dying the day before (We don’t have TiVo!). Now, don’t get us wrong. (DO NOT GET US WRONG.) We sympathize. We’ve gone on stage, in the clothes we wore to the funeral that day, and done our thing mere hours after putting a loved one in the ground, so we’re not unsympathetic when a comic loses a loved one and is required to perform. But May did his thing on national television, in a contest, where tons of money and notoriety were at stake. And he told old jokes! With tears streaming down his face. We felt bad for him. But we also felt bad for Todd Glass who had to follow him. And we felt bad for Tammy Pescatelli who was up against him, sort of (We think…remember– we don’t have TiVo). Now, everybody has a different way of dealing with a contest. And everybody has a different way of dealing with grief. But, if Mr. May was too distraught to perform his usual set, maybe he should have consulted with the LCS Officials and maybe begged off for this week’s competition. Maybe? Are we being too hard on Mr. May? Perhaps.
Hmmm… We’re watching Episode II and they’ve just read the results. It seems that Team Two won. Perhaps all this is tears under the bridge. We’ll see how it shapes up and see who get exiled, who gets booted. Stay tuned.
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It’s not the letter K that did them in. A friend of mine observed that the comic who goes first almost always gets the fewest votes. That has been true for LCS II and so far, for LCS III.
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Due to the delay (show filmed on Sunday and shown on Monday) Ralph actually had to go on stage 10 minutes after learning our father had died. He died August 29, 2004 and the show aired August 30. We buried our father on Sept. 1.So if you’re offended that Ralph didn’t perform as well as you do, so be it.Just sign me, Ralphie’s sister and proud of it
Offended?After re-reading the post, we see that we weren’t offended in the least. We were sympathetic to Mr. May. And to the others in the contest.We suggested that maybe, because it was a contest, Mr. May might have begged off.Like we said, we were sympathetic. To this day, in fact, we have a policy of not checking our phone messages less than, say, 4 hours before showtime. (Or however much time it might take to get a suitable replacement for us.) We’re still a little gunshy after a couple of bad phone calls over the past few years. And our relatives know to make a simple calculation or two and, if they have bad news, not call us until after a show. This is, after all, what we do for a living.Offended? Not at all. Just not so sure that Mr. May handled it in the best way possible– considering that the fortunes of others were involved, not just his.